There was never any doubt that April Conrad was Daddy’s little girl. Jim Benefield’s only child worshiped him. To her, he was larger than life.
He taught her how to fish. By the age of nine, she had her own tackle box, rod and reel and an aluminum boat to paddle around the three-acre lake behind their house in Tupelo, Miss.
She loved the outdoors and soon added golf to the list of sports her father taught her. The more she played, the more she became hooked.
“I wanted to be the next Nancy Lopez, not only because she was the best golfer, but because of the things she did for people away from the golf course. She was a great role model for young girls,’’ Conrad said.
It would turn out that the sports she learned from her father helped Conrad grow into a well-rounded young lady.
She played golf in high school when the family moved to Florida and was good enough to earn a scholarship to Pepperdine University, which had started its first women’s golf team.
Conrad played in an LPGA Tournament when she was a 16-year-old amateur. She qualified for the U.S. Open when she was 19.
April played four years at Pepperdine, was captain of the team for three of those years. She turned pro, aiming her sights on a Ladies Professional Golf Association career.
“I played some of the mini-tours out west and I played one year on the Futures Tour,’’ Conrad recalled. “After being out there three or four years, I hit the late 20s phase and I thought, “Hmmm. What do I really want to do?’ Do I really want to be a professional golfer, or do I want to do something else?’’
Her decision was made easier after a shoulder injury prevented her from finishing her swing. She tried cortisone shots. She considered surgery, but declined when told by doctors they could not guarantee the results she desired.
“I reached the point that accomplishments are pretty relevant and in reality, I had reached a number of my goals,’’ Conrad said.
“I had friends that tried Qualifying School 15 times. I knew I did not want to be that person.’’
Putting a professional golf career in her rear view mirror, Conrad started an event management company. She set up and managed charity and corporate golf tournaments around the country.
She and Will Conrad married 15 years ago and the couple now has two children. Anna is 13 and William is 11.
A visit to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital in Memphis led to Conrad’s next venture. She wanted to become involved in fund raising for the hospital.
“I knew I didn’t want to do another golf tournament,’’ she said. “So I took some time and talked with the people at St. Jude’s. My husband and I were really into fly-fishing. We even went fly-fishing in Wyoming on our honeymoon.’’
She eventually turned that passion into Hooked on a Cure Celebrity Fly Fishing Classic. The first tournament was held on the White River in Arkansas. It proved to be highly popular and in the first four years raised more than $200,000.
When the economy spiraled into free-fall, the tournament took a time out.
"It’s an expensive event to produce and 100 percent goes back to St. Jude’s. In the meantime, we have had some (fishing) trips and made a donation back to the hospital,’’ Conrad said.
For the past six years, Conrad has been an executive with The Coca-Cola Co. She is currently Market Development Manager and based in Alabama.
H.L. “Sandy’’ Williams Jr., is Chairman of the Board of the Coca-Cola Bottling Co. in Corinth, Miss. It has been in the family for generations. Conrad worked there early in her career with Coke and the two have remained friends.
“April is very personable, easy to get to know,’’ Williams said. “She is smart, savvy and perceptive. She gets the big picture.’’
She helped Williams start a foundation, worked for the foundation’s board of directors and got to know the business.
“She is a salesperson who has a lot of creative ideas,’’ Williams said.
Her lifelong passion for sports played a vital role into her transition into the male dominated corporate world.
“First of all, you don’t run into a lot of women in business that play golf and know how to fly fish,’’ Conrad said.
“It’s the discipline that helps you. You can’t pick up golf and be successful immediately. There is also a personal accountability and that probably plays well into the business world.’’
She point out three keys to being successful in business.
“Understand where your strengths lie. Second, do the same thing with your opportunities. Where are the places in your skill set that you can improve on?’’ Conrad noted. “And, third, lean toward the things that you love to do. That passion is very contagious. It can cause you to challenge yourself.’’
While much of Conrad’s life has been full of life and outdoors adventures, it reached a low point when she lost her mentor, her father, her buddy.
Jim Benefield died in 2001. He was 57and had prospered as an international import-export executive. It was a difficult time for Conrad, seeing cancer rob her father of a longer life.
Conrad always had answers. She could solve even the most difficult problems. But she was helpless when it came to helping her father.
Dr. Reuben Farris is Conrad’s uncle, the younger brother of her late father.
“I am nine years younger than my brother and April and I had more of an older brother-sister relationship,’’ said Farris, a physician in San Diego.
“She has always been confident in any setting and that was helped by being around power people all her life. Her father moved in big circles and she was exposed to that.
“I can still see her as a little tomboy running around with her Irish setter, Major Major,’’ Farris reflected. “But when her father died, it hit her hard. She admired him. He was always real supportive of her and it was tough losing him.’’
April Conrad took the boat out on a 28-acre spring-fed lake. It was located near the retirement house her parents moved to – in close proximity to his Mississippi childhood home. She and her father often fished there. They knew all the best fishing holes.
April was not alone. An urn containing her father’s ashes was secured in the boat. When she reached their favorite fishing hole, April quietly reminisced about all the good times they shared.
She later emptied the urn’s contents into the lake. It was her father’s request to her, made only days before the cancer claimed him. He wanted her to feed the fish.
Jim Benefield’s only child told her father good-bye, whispering to him that his wishes had been carried out.
A part of him will always be with her. Every time she lands a fish or hits a good shot on the golf course, her father made it all possible.
Written By: Joe Biddle
Joe Biddle has been a sports columnist sports talk radio co-host in Nashville for 31 years.